Justin Bieber: Youll Only Win Selena Gomez Back If You Grow Up

Home
Justin Bieber
Selena Gomez
Justin Bieber: You'll Only Win Selena Gomez

FameFlynet

Justin, it appears that youre still in love with ex-girlfriend Selena, and youre repeat! edly attempting to win her back. You can do it, but you need a whole new strategy!

Justin Bieber, we can totally understand why you cant let go of Selena Gomez. Shes a wonderful person, and she was a great girlfriend.

You two had two happy years together, and thats a long time for a couple that was just 17, (you) and 19 (her) when you first got together.

Not that many young romances last that long, even when the couple isnt in the celebrity spotlight and having to deal with the stresses of demanding work schedules and almost non-stop travel.

Despite all that and against long odds, you and Selena made it work.

You & Selena Understood Each other

So its no wonder that youve been missing your little mamacita as you used to call Selena. She was your best friend and confidant. She understood you and what you were going through.

You may have multi-millions of fans around the world, but very few young women are actually in the position to really understand what your life is like and what you have to do on a daily basis..

Selena did. She was a teen star just like you. She was a singer like you. And she understands what its like to deal with the pressures of fame.

You no doubt find it hard to believe that you have so many girls around the globe throwing themselves at you, but the one young woman who you love and want, refuses to get back together with you and barely responds to your calls and texts.

Your Behavior Is Not Good For Your Relationship

That must make you want her even more. The problem is, Justin, that since you split, you havent been on your best behavior. Youve arrived at your concert shows late, you had a tussle with a paparazzi, an L.A. neighbor has accused you of assaulting and spitting on him, and whats the deal with you repeatedly taking off your shirt in bizarre places, like the airport.

Justin, youve been facing an onslaught of criticism for your behavior and no matter how many times, you proclaim that youre not going to pay attention to the haters, it has to hurt.

Youre not used to having so much negative feedback and press.

You Can Trust Selena 100%

Thats why a source tells us you went to see Selena in L.A. on March 27, and asked her to help you sort out your messy life!

You know that you can trust Selena, as a true friend, and that she has a mature and thoughtful head on her shoulders.

You were nearly crying about all of the press and the assault investigation, when you saw Selena, a source toldHollywoodLife.com.

We understand Justin, how it must be hard when youre so famous and so many people are around, you are just yes people. You dont know who you can trust besides Selena.

Even your mom,Pattie MallettetoldtheToday show that she thinks Selena is a sweetheart and that it might have been a mistake to allow the breakup to happen.

The only thing is Justin, is that if you want to win Selena back, you are going about it in exactly the wrong way.

You may be trying to win Selena over by allowing your neediness to show and hoping it melts her heart.

But thats the opposite of what she wants to hear. Selena doesnt want to take you back because you dont know how to pull your life together.

She doesnt want to take care of a boy. She wants to have a relationship with a man, who is mature, together, and energized about making positive moves.

You Can Win Her Back If You Make Some Changes

If you want to win back Selena, you need to stop partying, literally, stop freaking out about paparazzi, stop getting into trouble with neighbors or anyone else, and start acting like an adult.

If Selena is the young woman for you, and you want to share the new good times and renewed romance, forget about trying to play on her sympathies.

Instead, start showing her how much you have learned from your mistakes and how youve grown into a man she can be impressed by.

Selena is a very special young woman. You wont easily replace her love, so Id advise you to get cracking in the maturity department if you want to win her back. Selena wants to be with a Justin Bieber that she can respect not a Justin Bieber that shed have to bail out.

Justin its ! very likel! y that Selena still loves you. The feelings that she had for you for so long dont just go away quickly.

But shes been fighting those feelings for what she believes is her own good. She believes that she needs to get over you.

And Justin, if you wait too long to get our of your recent doldrums, her feelings will eventually fade away.

Do you agreeHollywoodLifers? Let me know!