Selena Gomez: Dont Revenge Date After Justin Bieber Split

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Selena Gomez: Dont Revenge

Selena Gomez, n! o matter how angry you are at Justin Bieber, dating tons of hot guys wont mend your broken heart. In fact, it could hurt you even more.

Selena Gomez a source has told us exclusively at HollywoodLife.com that you want to flirt with as many hot guys as you can right now and go on tons of dates to forget about Justin Bieber.

Listen Selena, we can totally understand that sentiment. Youre hurting right now and you will be for awhile. You dated Justin for two years and it was a very committed and serious romance.

You and Justin, now 18, were very devoted to each other and survived a lot of separations until you felt like he let you down.

Cry Me a River, Bieber

You thought he cheated on you with Victorias Secret model Barbara Palvin, according to reports, and you seemed to be saying that yourself when you pointedly sang Justin Timberlakes hit, Cry Me a River at your UNICEF concert in NYC, on Sep. 19.

The song is infamously about Justin Timberlakes painful split from Britney Spears after she cheated on him.

Now your plan is to get ov! er Justin! by finding a good guy, explains the source.

He was just a little boy and she needs a man, so yeah, she will go on a ton of dates and be happy and forget about Justin, the source close to you tells HollywoodLife.com.

Selena you should definitely start going out with your good friends. Lean on BFFTaylor Swift for moral support and be open to dating guys who you meet or who youre introduced to, that you really feel a connection to.

The Downsides of Revenge Dating

But Im giving you a little cautionary advice about dating tons of guys. Selena, youre used to having a meaningful relationship, not dealing with guys who could be dating you because youre well, Selena Gomez, or who are boring and conceited, or who just have nothing in common with you.

Dating is only fun if you actually like and are interested in the guys you are dating. Otherwise, its just a chore, no matter how gorgeous or sexy a guy might be on the surface.

Dating tons of guys sounds more exciting than it actually is I can guarantee you! In the best case ,it just gets boring, and in the worst case it can make you feel even more lonely or used, and it can make you miss your ex even more than before exactly the opposite of what you want to have happen.

In other words Selena your plan to revenge date after your Justin Bieber split can totally backfire!

It can actually make you feel less self-confident ! about you! rself and your decision to split ,and can lead to more heartache.

Why Its Best To Wait And Date Selectively

To avoid that, Selena, its better to take your time and wait until you meet a guy you really like or are interested in, and then date him.

Dating volume cant mend your heart if it only leads to emptiness and not friendship or real romance.

Its great that youre feeling hot as hell, as a source told us. You ARE hot as hell and a terrific, talented, and thoughtful person to boot.

But dont waste all that hotness on a ton of unworthy guys. Even though youre hurting and anxious to move on from Justin, its better to hold on a bit and wait to have real and heartfelt dates not revenge dates!

And you know what? You cant worry about what Justin is doing, even if you hear that he is seeing other girls. It doesnt mean that hes not hurting too, and he could be having a lousy time when hes out with those girls and just wishing that he was with you!

What do you think,HollywoodLifers? Do you agree that Selena should hold off on revenge dating ? Let me know!